Lori M., that is a great suggestion! I, too, bring my “magic bag” the first week with a new family. It’s also a great way to find out what a child is interested in and get a sense of their personality.
Emily L, having the nanny take the child on a fun outing is another great suggestion. Making fun memories early on is super important, and can help both parties feel more comfortable with each other. I just started a new position a few weeks ago with two school-aged girls. The first week, we went for a bike ride to a brunch spot and then went bowling. It was a great way to get to know them in a relaxed setting.